Yearly Archives: 2006

Howard Ditkoff and Emergent Associates in the Detroit News

December 4, 2006
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Howard Ditkoff and Emergent Associates, LLC, the company he co-founded with Mark S. Meritt, were featured in the Detroit News today. Reprinted here is a copy of one of Howard’s announcements of the article.

Friends,

As many of you know, about a year and a half ago, I started a company called Emergent Associates, LLC along with a partner, Mark Meritt. The company was very much directly inspired by Daniel Quinn’s work. The idea of the company was to apply knowledge and tools we have found useful from various fields (all of which we saw as relating to and helping to make practical some of Quinn’s ideas) to help people improve and fulfill more of their potential in their lives and organizations, something I’ve always been passionate about. We came to feel that this was our best opportunity to both improve our own lives, while also doing our part to improve the world. Using these tools, we found we were able to impact people in areas ranging from career, relationship or business issues, to helping develop projects or ideas people had, to just helping someone find their direction or work through any particularly challenging issue. Mark has since gone on to spin off his own company, Potluck Creative Arts ( http://www.potluck.com/arts/ ), as well.

About a month ago, I saw an article in the Detroit News about a person who had left his job to start his own company. He talked a lot about how, in his new company, he had the freedom to focus on doing what he found worked well, rather than on the more superficial things that he found less important, but that some other companies spent so much time worrying about. I really related to that story and so I emailed the writer, Brian O’Connor, about my own career change. Last week he got back to me and brought me in to take a photo and then did an interview. The resulting article, which I’m really excited about – along with a photo of me with several relevant books that include Ishmael and Beyond Civilization – is in today’s Detroit News at:

http://www.detnews.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20061106/BIZ01/102120001/1010

Over the last year and a half, many of you have asked me to explain more about what Emergent Associates does. As the company and its marketing is still developing, I’m still improving my ability to give people a clear picture of what I do (since it’s much easier to demonstrate than to explain). Hopefully, after reading this article, you’ll have a little bit better understanding of that. As mentioned in the article, I’m still really developing the marketing of the company – including a far better, professionally-created website that I hope you’ll come check out when it’s done (the current site is really just a placeholder). All of this should help clarify what Emergent Associates is all about, and in great part what I’m all about, as time goes on.

Like most articles I’ve been mentioned in, there are a couple small errors. Technically, I am not a psychiatrist, but rather I left medicine after finishing medical school but before starting a residency in psychiatry. Also, I am currently looking for a new place, so I may not be in Oak Park any longer (and by the way, the best way to reach me is still at my old phone # by leaving a voice mail). But other than that, I think the article does a nice job of capturing the mindset of the company. It also is an example of something I think is very important which is that the best way we can promote Quinn’s ideas in the world is through embodying them and then promoting the things we do as a result of being changed by his work. I was never able to get much publicity for Quinn’s work directly, yet here I managed to get a couple of his books in the paper by publicizing not his work, but the things that I’ve done after being inspired by his work. So I hope some of you find it interesting and feel free to talk to me if you have any questions about what I do, and to forward it on to anyone else who might find it of interest.

Thanks to all of you who have been offering support as I’ve been making these changes in my life and working to achieve my goals, and help others achieve theirs, through this company.

Best,
Howard
Emergent Associates, LLC
http://www.emergentassociates.com

Come Out

November 28, 2006
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Music and Lyrics by Mark S. Meritt

This song was written for a compilation album of songs inspired by the work of Daniel Quinn. Mark wanted to throw things for a loop with this song about being true to who you are. The appreciative approach he took led him to create an homage to some of the great disco anthems, both lyrically and especially musically, using that style and the notion of coming out of the closet in a similar way to how the gay movement has at times used disco songs for its own anthems. Learn more about Potluck’s custom songwriting service which uses Appreciative Inquiry to draw out your needs and desires as the basis for an original song.

Listen to Come Out.

Sung by Steph Campbell.

You can listen to the whole song via this YouTube video by just pressing the Play button immediately below. Or, you can visit YouTube to see the video or post a comment.

Lyrics

Empty
That’s how I’d always feel
My life
Didn’t even seem real
I just couldn’t get all the things I needed
I thought I was defeated

Prison
That’s what I felt inside
Afraid
Part of me might have died
But then someone brought me a brand new story
Here’s what that someone told me

Come out!
Come out of your shell
Or all you get and all you give, you’ll be living in hell
Come out!
Come out of your hole
Or any tale you might be telling, you’ll be selling your soul
If you want a lot, just forget what you’re not
If you’re gonna go far, you’ve gotta be who you are
Shout it, flout it, spout it, tout it
‘Til there’s not a drop of doubt
About
Come out!

So I
Took my mind off the bad
And looked
At what I really had
Though it wasn’t much, still, it was beginning
I slowly started winning

Take two
Now, I am what I am
My life
Not someone else’s sham
For better or worse, I do what works for me
And you’ll, too, if you’ll only

Come out!
Come out of your shell
Or all you get and all you give, you’ll be living in hell
Come out!
Come out of your hole
Or any tale you might be telling, you’ll be selling your soul
If you want a lot, just forget what you’re not
If you’re gonna go far, you’ve gotta be who you are
Shout it, flout it, spout it, tout it
‘Til there’s not a drop of doubt
About
Come out!

You wanna live your life?
Well, you just can’t do it
If it’s not you doing the livin’
You wanna love someone
But you just can’t do it
If it’s not you doing the lovin’
You wanna change the world?
Well, there’s nothin’ to it
Long as it’s you doin’ the changin’
You wanna speak your mind
But if you can’t say, "My mind is mine"
Then what’s the use of talkin’ at all?

Come out, come out, whoever you are
Come out, come out, whoever you are
Come out, come out, whoever you are
Come out, come out, whoever you are

Stand up
Be yourself, feel alive
You’ll do
So much more than survive
Just like love and shelter and food and air
It’s something that we all share

Homo
sapiens all the world ’round
Were lost
Now we all can be found
It all can come out in the end, you’ll see
If everyone will only

Come out!
Come out of your closet
If you don’t, you won’t earn a return on your deposit
Come out!
Come out of your cage
Or all you loathe and all you love, you’ll feel nothing but rage

Come out!
Come out of your shell
Or all you get and all you give, you’ll be living in hell
Come out!
Come out of your hole
Or any tale you might be telling, you’ll be selling your soul
If you want a lot, just forget what you’re not
To get what you need, be yourself in deed
Shout it, flout it, spout it, tout it
‘Til there’s not a drop of doubt
About
Come out!

You wanna get things done
You wanna have some fun
You wanna feel so free
You wanna let it be

You wanna find your path
You wanna have a laugh
You wanna see the sights
You wanna reach new heights

You wanna do your best
You wanna get some rest
You wanna leave your mark
You wanna bite and bark

You wanna be so kind
You wanna ease your mind
You wanna make a friend
You wanna reach the end

You wanna have a thrill
You wanna make a kill
You wanna feel some pride
You wanna get inside

You wanna satisfy
You wanna live and die
You wanna raise the youth
You wanna know the truth

Circle P - Phonorecord Copyright & © 2007, 2006 Mark S. Meritt

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values

November 15, 2006
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Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values
Robert M. Pirsig

Zen and the Art of Making a Living: A Practical Guide to Creative Career Design

November 15, 2006
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Zen and the Art of Making a Living: A Practical Guide to Creative Career Design (Arkana)
Laurence G. Boldt

Yertle the Turtle and Other Stories

November 15, 2006
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Yertle the Turtle and Other Stories
Dr. Seuss

The Wisdom of the Crows and Other Buddhist Tales

November 15, 2006
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The Wisdom of the Crows and Other Buddhist Tales (4-6)
Sherab Chodzin anf Alexandra Kohn, illustrated by Marie Cameron

Why Can’t I Fly?

November 15, 2006
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Why Can’t I Fly? (Hello Reader)
Rita Golden Gelman, illustrated by Jack Kent

Whose Garden Is It?

November 15, 2006
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Whose Garden Is It?
Mary Ann Hoberman, illustrated by Jane Dyer

What Happy People Know: How the New Science of Happiness Can Change Your Life for the Better

November 15, 2006
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What Happy People Know: How the New Science of Happiness Can Change Your Life for the Better
Dan Brown

We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love

November 15, 2006
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We: Understanding the Psychology of Romantic Love
Robert A. Johnson

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